For: Latin context
If his mother or his father have been dismissed of his employment, there has come the moment in which the economic crisis about which so much one speaks has come to his hearth.
The families joined in this situation can get better over any storm, be already a financial problem or any other difficulty that they face.
1. The dismissal will involve a substantial change in the expenses. Depending on a factors quantity, between them the number of savings or funds “of emergency”, the unemployment will give as turned out less expenses. It will be necessary to count up to the most minimal cent, and Mom and Dad will look for ways of reducing them. Some of the luxuries to which they were accustomed will have to eliminate definitely, how cable television, plans of cell phones, or holidays.
2. Mom and Dad could be subject to big pressures. With the weight of the responsibility on his shoulders, his parents might estresarse greatly thinking about the best options for the family. Although it is not proposed, they might seem angry or absent when one speaks to them. Bear in mind that this probably has not anything in common with you, but with the pressure of looking for employment and of guaranteeing that the accounts keep on paying. If you give the example with a positive attitude, it might inspire his parents so that also they think positively.
3. Consider a dialogue with his younger brothers. Every member of the family might feel the impact of the dismissal. Nevertheless, the parents confront major difficulties in expressing his feelings to a small son. Take the initiative and converse with his brother or sister in preschool age about the situation. But make sure that the dialogue should be adapted for his age.
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4. Think about other ways of helping. Does it have the sufficient age to realize a work to partial day to contribute to the familiar sustenance? Can he speak with his schoolmates to see if his parents have some work opportunity for theirs? Does it have in mind any skills of saving, like collective transport, more brief showers, use of discount coupons, etc., that could help the family?
5. It is not bad to get angry. The idea of being a son who waits for attention, and for the conflict that provokes a dismissal in the family, they can wake up annoyance. Nevertheless, to leave that I controlled us the annoyance will not help in anything the family. Speak with his parents about these feelings, and to know that they also might be feeling the same can help to that they all achieve an emotional resolution.
6. To know that they are not alone. There are thousands of thousands of families happening for the same current situation. Other young people is looking for answers and feeling the same emotions.
To ventilate a little this pressure, it is possible to visit Internet and to narrate in a blog his experiences, or to visit a chat room to exchange impressions about his financial worries, which might to be a source to know some advices that could help his family.
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